My husband, Michael and I are newly married. I would like to believe that you are still considered newlyweds for up to a year. We are 9 months into our newlywed bliss and so far enjoying it. But Michael's parents came for a visit not that long ago. I love his parents- they are from the Midwest and have the biggest hearts ever. His dad reminds me of my grandfather who passed when I was young and I enjoy every minute I get to spend with him. This trip was special... there was more mention of that word... KIDS. “When are you going to make us grandparents?" My reply, "look at the two sleeping puppies over there... Those are your grandbabies." Michael and I have two rescue dogs, Jacques a Bichon Frise and Sherman "The Tank" a Maltese Poodle Mix. These puppies are a handful enough as it. And yes, they are a great training tool for kids. You have late nights when one of them is sick, you have to take them to get their teeth cleaned and even clean up after them. They are a great training tool. Michael and I discuss the matter of kids, but we both agree, we aren't ready to give up our DINK title. It’s a great title. Dual Income No Kids. It's great in the sense that, we can still take off and go for a hike, a bike ride or go camping. Michael has taught me to love the outdoors more. And camping has become our thing to do when the weather is nice. I am slowly venturing into the world of hiking. Michael calls it hiking, but I call them forced marches. And, I can come home to a quiet house and read a book. Being a voracious reader, this is HUGE for me.
Coupled with Michael's parents visit my 10 year HS reunion is looming. Looking back, I always thought I would be married, white picket fence with 2.5 kids. Never really thought about a career. I am married, don't have the white picket fence, but I do have a fence and I am embarking on a new chapter in my career. I was just recently promoted and now manage a group of 8 people. And last but not leaste, I am going to gradschool at Boston University to get my MSPM. So far I am in my first class. Still working on the whole juggling of life, work, and school. I am getting back into running and hope to complete a triathlon by the time I am 30. So at the end of the day, I like my title, and I get to come home, hug my husband, play with my dogs and look around at all that I have accomplished and celebrate the fact that Yes, I am a DINK.
Hi Amy! Look forward to talking with you in class. Enjoy your freedom & flexibility now - it definitely a challenge to find free time once you have kids in the picture! But I wouldn't trade it for anything!
ReplyDeleteMy daughter has been asking for a dog recently, but I've been holding off as long as possible. Yours are very cute and about the size we'd consider - how are they with shedding? That's one of my concerns as my son has a pet allergy.
Thanks!
Gale
Amy,
ReplyDeleteI read your blog and liked it. Everyone has a story to tell. While reading the blog after seeing the picture at the top of your page, it seemed like I could hear a voice or as if it was as though someone was reading it to me. It flows like a conversation. That's the purpose of a blog. Well done, mad props, keep it real, and I'm glad to see you're a person that has dogs and not a dog-person.
Hi Gale~
ReplyDeleteThe dogs I have are hypoallergenic. So not a worry there! The Bichon requires more time to groom, but I don't give him the true Bichon look so it's manageable. Shedding is not a problem with them. I love my dogs and would recommend the Bichon and Maltese poodles to anyone. Let me know what you decide!
Amy,
ReplyDeleteCongrats on being a newly wed! You did a great job with your layout.
Where was your picture taken? The scenary looks awesome! Living downtown Chicago, its not often I see green whether it be trees or grass.
Look forward to having you in class as well and good luck!
Hi Amy,
ReplyDeleteSounds like a busy DINK life! I am sure you will find a balance between school, work, family and everything else life sends your way! I enjoyed your post, it was an interesting read. Looking forward to working with you over the next several weeks!